Dreamin’ up a storm

I’m in love with a lot of ideas.

I love the idea of traveling all over the world. I can close my eyes and see myself on the beaches of Australia and Greece, the green hillsides of Ireland, lost in the city of Chicago, giddy with excitement watching a giraffe in its natural habitat (fun fact: they’re my favorite animal.) I’m proud of the travels I’ve embarked upon thus far, but traveling is something I plan to do for the rest of my life.

California lovin'
California lovin’

I love the idea of growing as a professional. This idea is going to be constantly in motion. I am at an incredible place with my career right now; It’s hard for me to believe that I am just shy of being two years out of college. The mentors I have been fortunate enough to have in my life have allowed me to challenge myself in terms of what I’ve learned, as well as what I want out of my career. A professor once told me, “your career will be a zig-zag path, not a straight line.” He was right. The day I stop learning and growing is the day that I make my next zig-zag. Right now, however, I couldn’t be happier with the path I’m on.

My motivational year-long success board at work
“One year from now, what will have made the past 12 months a success?” My motivational year-long-success board at work.

I love the idea of being in love (again). If you’ve never been over-the-moon in love with someone, I encourage you to be vulnerable and think of how you can allow love to more easily incorporate itself into your life. If you’ve been in love before and it slapped you in the face and left you heartbroken, I encourage you to work on acceptance so that it does not hold you back from future possibilities. Being in love in a healthy, mutual way is, to me, the greatest joy I have ever known. I am a sap, though, so take that into account. However, the day that timing and chemistry line up in perfect unison and present me with the love that will last until the day I leave this Earth, I will shout it from the rooftops and never look back.

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I love the idea of being a mom and raising a family (when I’m ready, people!) I am blessed to have two incredible role models as parents, as well as a niece who reminds me every day that there is nothing more pure than the innocence and candidness of a child. There are some things that you just know you want to happen in your life without a shred of a doubt. Having a family and being a great mom is one of them for me.

 

Reading Alice her letter from Santa on Christmas morning
Reading Alice her letter from Santa on Christmas morning

These are all dreams of mine that I’m eager to have come to fruition. Yet I think back and realize that many of my accomplishments were once just simple ideas that I was in love with. There were days when I dreamt of going away to college, giving the commencement speech at my graduation, landing my first job and coaching a cheerleading team. Those dreams are now realities I have proudly checked off of my personal to-do list.

If the dreams in your head present themselves time and time again, that is a sign you just cannot afford to ignore. Chase them. Fight for them. Pour your heart and soul into them until those dreams you’re so in love with turn into the life you’re proud to call your own.

The unluckiest

Considering my life is all sorts of wacky these days, I hope you can all appreciate that this St. Patrick’s Day inspired post is coming to you in belated-fashion. Better late than never, right? (But never late is better.)

Let me preface my upcoming point by saying that over the past six years or so I have worked diligently to shape my own way of thinking. I have honestly trained myself to think optimistically and to be very self-aware of both my thoughts and my actions in order to find a lesson in any given situation. A lot of people call me crazy for this. But at the end of the day, I’m just a glass-half-full kind of girl and it has proven to be extremely beneficial in my life.

I’ve never been a believer in luck — good or bad. To me, luck is based on factors that are out of my control. While I have certainly learned that there are some instances in life I will never have control over, I would much rather put my energy into the parts of my life that I can be held accountable for.

Luck just isn’t for me. I believe if you want something, you simply have to bust your ass and work hard to get it.

I’m not the first person to ever put those words down on paper or have them grace the pages of the Internet. This isn’t some genius concept that will change your life. But perhaps it will open your eyes to a different way of thinking. 

Yes, often times the good things in our lives require patience. But patience does not mean sitting around being inactive with your fingers crossed waiting for luck to strike.

Patience means constantly working toward what it is that you want with the understanding that the best things in our lives are rarely placed in front of us for immediate gratification. Rather, the most worthwhile parts of our lives are built up over time, a result of triumphs, failures, embarrassments and joy all wrapped into one messy life. These pinnacle points of our lives are presented to us only when we are ready to appreciate their true beauty and value. The best part about it? They sneak up on us, and more often than not appear right when we need them the most.

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I look like a cardboard cutout and I can’t get over it. Happy St. Patrick’s Day from your favorite quirky (Irish) blonde. xoxo 😉