Life’s little surprises

Surprises. They’re everywhere. They surround us. They suffocate us. And they hide behind every corner. Sometimes we’re surprised by joyful things — a new baby being brought into the world, a job offer, a family visit, even something as small as your friend leaving you the last timbit. But sometimes, oh sometimes surprises are devastating. They often come when you are already at what you perceive to be rock bottom, when one more thing being added to the pile would just make your body and your heart collapse altogether. You get angry. You scream. You react in a way that is so out of character that you think back and wonder who that person even was.

And then something remarkable happens… you realize that you’re still breathing. You’re still standing there, eyes open, heart pumping, and simply breathing. You are still in the fight. An ounce of hope still sits in your heart because you realize that the world is going to continue on regardless of these surprises – regardless of whether they’re joyful or painful, deserving or unjustified, wonderful or heartbreaking. Hold on to that hope and that faith that no matter what, your life is going to go on. Maybe not the way you had planned, maybe not the way you had envisioned, but it will go on in a way that makes you both appreciative of the good things that remain, and grateful for the understanding that once you’ve hit rock bottom, the only place left to go is up.

Don’t get too anxious

There are times, especially during college, when it seems like every test, project and paper is due the same week, sometimes even the same day. On top of that, last minute meetings get scheduled, you have to put in extra hours at work or your internship, and if you’re a senior, you also have interviews to extensively prepare for. What you once thought you had a solid grip on begins to slip out of control, and if you’re anything like me, your mind races wondering “okay…okay…how am I going to do all of this? where do I start? what is going to take the most time?”.

Doing this can drive you nuts. And it will if you let it. The key is to remove yourself from the situation for a short period of time. You have to be able to look at it from the outside so that you can gain perspective on how to prioritize your seemingly endless to-do list. It’s easy to get bogged down and overwhelmed with everything that piles up in your life. The best thing you can do for yourself is to take a deep breath, step away from everything for a few minutes, understand the situation for what it truly is, and then take it on full force with a clear and collected mindset.